As i grow older , I really found some distinctive changes in my behaviour.
I become very sensitive and show my temper easily especially to my family members. My mood swing high and low and it is just out of my control. At times i was so down that i feel like i am so lonely and unwanted. I hope my family members will understand my feeling and do not blame me if i really hurt you guys unintentionally.
Please make some effort to understand me.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Money evil
Many old people said that we should produce more children so that they can take care of the parents when they get old later. However in most cases it does not happen that way !
The tendency is the more children one has , the higher the chance is that the children would push away the responsibility to one another when comes to taking care of the old folks. Some of the "no sense devil" children can even try by hook or by crook to cheat the parents so called "coffin money" !! He can behave so caring and nice to the parents but in his mind, was full of tricks to dig the money out from the parents! I hate such idiots !
We can't live without money but wrongly use or abusing it could be evil!
The tendency is the more children one has , the higher the chance is that the children would push away the responsibility to one another when comes to taking care of the old folks. Some of the "no sense devil" children can even try by hook or by crook to cheat the parents so called "coffin money" !! He can behave so caring and nice to the parents but in his mind, was full of tricks to dig the money out from the parents! I hate such idiots !
We can't live without money but wrongly use or abusing it could be evil!
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Mother's Day Gift
I am sure all mothers love to receive something be it tangible or intangible from their children especially in a special day so call Mothers day - a day to signify the mother 's contribution to the family. I, as a mother also will be much delighted if i can rec something from my children too !
Guess what ? I got a surprised gift from my son who is still studying in spore. Since he cant present himself in this day, he had decided to tailor make a video clip which comprised of our sweet memories and the happy time together from the past to present. Hehe, what a good and meaningful idea that he has !
While watching i can really feel his love and care to me ! I was really touched and appreciated his good effort . I guess the hard time that i have gone through with the family and kids was well paid.
Thank you very much for his gift and i shall keep in my memory as long as i live and i love him too !
Guess what ? I got a surprised gift from my son who is still studying in spore. Since he cant present himself in this day, he had decided to tailor make a video clip which comprised of our sweet memories and the happy time together from the past to present. Hehe, what a good and meaningful idea that he has !
While watching i can really feel his love and care to me ! I was really touched and appreciated his good effort . I guess the hard time that i have gone through with the family and kids was well paid.
Thank you very much for his gift and i shall keep in my memory as long as i live and i love him too !
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Shocking News
I got a call from one of my good friends in the morning and she told me she was around my office and wanted to collect the stock that she ordered 2 days ago.
Without further hesitation, i got myself prepared and drove straight to my work place within 30 min time. As i walked into my office, i heard the door bell rang and she was right in front my door.
While she walked into my office, i can observe that she had obviously lost weight, her eyes was swollen, somehow very different from what i saw her few months back. Jokingly i asked her" hey you lost weight wor ? why ?"
She just replied with tears that her husband passed away 3 months ago ! My immediate reaction was " what ? kidding ? " my hair stood up and for a few seconds i almost cant breath . Then my eyes were wet. tears kept flowing . What happened ? How come ?
She told me that her husband died of heart attack during CNY and it happened just within seconds. Until today she still could not accept the fact that her husband has left her forever.
They were such a loving couples since the day they married. They spent most of the time together because they have no children. They used to go for trips within and outside the country during the public holidays or as at when they have break time. Her husband was such a caring person that he would not allow the wife to do housework or even simple cooking. His interest was to search for good tasty food in any part of the town and during weekend he would take his wife to enjoy with him. In case he has to go overseas , he would make sure to call or sms the wife to keep her inform about every detail that he did to make sure that the wife was not lonely. This have been going on since they married.
Now everything was gone with the husband, my friend was left alone and kept recalling the sweet memory with tears. She has been counseled, but it did not work. She appeared ok in the day but at night when she closed her eyes , she will start crying ,crying and crying. She had sleepless night from the day her husband gone til today. No wonder she has changed drastically.
Why life is so uncertain, and why our life is so fragile ? To my friend, the best medicine to heal her wound is non other than time. I sincerely hope that as time goes on, she will be able to take it and revive to be a stronger person...Friend, you must take care !!
Without further hesitation, i got myself prepared and drove straight to my work place within 30 min time. As i walked into my office, i heard the door bell rang and she was right in front my door.
While she walked into my office, i can observe that she had obviously lost weight, her eyes was swollen, somehow very different from what i saw her few months back. Jokingly i asked her" hey you lost weight wor ? why ?"
She just replied with tears that her husband passed away 3 months ago ! My immediate reaction was " what ? kidding ? " my hair stood up and for a few seconds i almost cant breath . Then my eyes were wet. tears kept flowing . What happened ? How come ?
She told me that her husband died of heart attack during CNY and it happened just within seconds. Until today she still could not accept the fact that her husband has left her forever.
They were such a loving couples since the day they married. They spent most of the time together because they have no children. They used to go for trips within and outside the country during the public holidays or as at when they have break time. Her husband was such a caring person that he would not allow the wife to do housework or even simple cooking. His interest was to search for good tasty food in any part of the town and during weekend he would take his wife to enjoy with him. In case he has to go overseas , he would make sure to call or sms the wife to keep her inform about every detail that he did to make sure that the wife was not lonely. This have been going on since they married.
Now everything was gone with the husband, my friend was left alone and kept recalling the sweet memory with tears. She has been counseled, but it did not work. She appeared ok in the day but at night when she closed her eyes , she will start crying ,crying and crying. She had sleepless night from the day her husband gone til today. No wonder she has changed drastically.
Why life is so uncertain, and why our life is so fragile ? To my friend, the best medicine to heal her wound is non other than time. I sincerely hope that as time goes on, she will be able to take it and revive to be a stronger person...Friend, you must take care !!
Thursday, April 30, 2009
My mind still pondering over the conversation between Leo and me on the day he was about to go back to Spore on 16/4.
We were having the breakfast together, and he told me that he has got no appetite even though the food that i have prepared were all his favourite ones. He also reviewed to me that he could not sleep the whole night. No wonder he looked tired .He said he felt very ' heavy " to go back to spore.
'Heavy" applied to the stress /pressure to his exam/study or his reluctance to leave his home and family members ?
For whatever the reason , i hope he will be able to 'unload' the stress gradually. Remember one must be able to 'change' to adapt to the situation no matter he is willing or not willing because life journey is just full of 'changes' and challenges.
The brothers patch up
If not because i was observant enough, i might have overlooked that my 2 sons have not been talking to each other since the quarrel in jan 09.
This could lead to a serious problem among the siblings in future if i did nothing to rectify it.
Therefore before my big boy come back for holiday, i have a heart to heart talk with the small one. I explained to him the consequences that may happen in future and i also made myself very clear that i was strongly against such action.At the end of the conversation, he promised to me that he will do something to bring back the relationship with the brother.
I waited to see what he was going to do ..cos he did not tell me what he was going to do.
Then my big boy came back in the mid april. The moment he went into the living hall, suddenly , he got a big hug from the brother and a big 'kiss ' on his face with a very sincere apology from him ' koko, i am sorry!'
Haha, without any further explanation, the two brothers hug each other and the laughter continued.
Ooooo, this was a very happy ending that i long for...Sons keep up the good relationship and be more caring and loving to each other ya..
This could lead to a serious problem among the siblings in future if i did nothing to rectify it.
Therefore before my big boy come back for holiday, i have a heart to heart talk with the small one. I explained to him the consequences that may happen in future and i also made myself very clear that i was strongly against such action.At the end of the conversation, he promised to me that he will do something to bring back the relationship with the brother.
I waited to see what he was going to do ..cos he did not tell me what he was going to do.
Then my big boy came back in the mid april. The moment he went into the living hall, suddenly , he got a big hug from the brother and a big 'kiss ' on his face with a very sincere apology from him ' koko, i am sorry!'
Haha, without any further explanation, the two brothers hug each other and the laughter continued.
Ooooo, this was a very happy ending that i long for...Sons keep up the good relationship and be more caring and loving to each other ya..
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Joy of cooking
Roast Char Siew
Roast Chicken ThighAs a homemaker of the family, I just cannot avoid to get involved with cooking whether I like it or not. I also cannot recall since when I have fell in love with cooking which I hated so much those days ?
Nevertheless, I found my answer yesterday when I observed my loved ones i.e. my 3 kids and my husband who have enjoyed and "wallop" my dishes in less than 30 min. I saw how they enjoyed the food and the satisfaction on their faces! I guess this was the main reason why I am so into cooking gua .
To prepare good dishes for the family, a house wife needs to have a strong interest and a loving heart to get it done. On top of that, family members' appreciation will be another factor to encourage her to move on.
Getting together among the family members to enjoy home cooked meals will definately enhance the relationship within the family. I believe as long as my loved ones still enjoy my cooking I will try my best to improve my skill and search for better recipes.
Nevertheless, I found my answer yesterday when I observed my loved ones i.e. my 3 kids and my husband who have enjoyed and "wallop" my dishes in less than 30 min. I saw how they enjoyed the food and the satisfaction on their faces! I guess this was the main reason why I am so into cooking gua .
To prepare good dishes for the family, a house wife needs to have a strong interest and a loving heart to get it done. On top of that, family members' appreciation will be another factor to encourage her to move on.
Getting together among the family members to enjoy home cooked meals will definately enhance the relationship within the family. I believe as long as my loved ones still enjoy my cooking I will try my best to improve my skill and search for better recipes.
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