Sometimes i really wonder what is a lady look for when she is searching for her life partner? 4 Cs ? cash, credit card, condo and car ?

Some city girls are real " money duitan " and they are also very demanding especially to the requirements of their " target partner". Some say no need so tall but must at least 185cm, look not so important but must be smart and mature, not so rich never mind but at least earns 5 figures a month ..etc etc etc...and they claim that they are NOT demanding ! Wah , lol..! I wonder if they are demanding, what will be the conditions then ??

The most annoying kind of scenario is " riding on a cow and look for a white horse " ! I feel sorry for the one be treated as a cow and kena 'fei' when the real horse was found.

I also understood that many ppl do not mind the " one night stand" kind of attitude . They just want enjoyment without commitment !

Money evil

Many old people said that we should produce more children so that they can take care of the parents when they get old later. However in most cases it does not happen that way !

The tendency is the more children one has , the higher the chance is that the children would push away the responsibility to one another when comes to taking care of the old folks. Some of the "no sense devil" children can even try by hook or by crook to cheat the parents so called "coffin money" !! He can behave so caring and nice to the parents but in his mind, was full of tricks to dig the money out from the parents! I hate such idiots !

We can't live without money but wrongly use or abusing it could be evil!

Mother's Day Gift

I am sure all mothers love to receive something be it tangible or intangible from their children especially in a special day so call Mothers day - a day to signify the mother 's contribution to the family. I, as a mother also will be much delighted if i can rec something from my children too !

Guess what ? I got a surprised gift from my son who is still studying in spore. Since he cant present himself in this day, he had decided to tailor make a video clip which comprised of our sweet memories and the happy time together from the past to present. Hehe, what a good and meaningful idea that he has !

While watching i can really feel his love and care to me ! I was really touched and appreciated his good effort . I guess the hard time that i have gone through with the family and kids was well paid.

Thank you very much for his gift and i shall keep in my memory as long as i live and i love him too !

Shocking News

I got a call from one of my good friends in the morning and she told me she was around my office and wanted to collect the stock that she ordered 2 days ago.

Without further hesitation, i got myself prepared and drove straight to my work place within 30 min time. As i walked into my office, i heard the door bell rang and she was right in front my door.

While she walked into my office, i can observe that she had obviously lost weight, her eyes was swollen, somehow very different from what i saw her few months back. Jokingly i asked her" hey you lost weight wor ? why ?"

She just replied with tears that her husband passed away 3 months ago ! My immediate reaction was " what ? kidding ? " my hair stood up and for a few seconds i almost cant breath . Then my eyes were wet. tears kept flowing . What happened ? How come ?

She told me that her husband died of heart attack during CNY and it happened just within seconds. Until today she still could not accept the fact that her husband has left her forever.

They were such a loving couples since the day they married. They spent most of the time together because they have no children. They used to go for trips within and outside the country during the public holidays or as at when they have break time. Her husband was such a caring person that he would not allow the wife to do housework or even simple cooking. His interest was to search for good tasty food in any part of the town and during weekend he would take his wife to enjoy with him. In case he has to go overseas , he would make sure to call or sms the wife to keep her inform about every detail that he did to make sure that the wife was not lonely. This have been going on since they married.

Now everything was gone with the husband, my friend was left alone and kept recalling the sweet memory with tears. She has been counseled, but it did not work. She appeared ok in the day but at night when she closed her eyes , she will start crying ,crying and crying. She had sleepless night from the day her husband gone til today. No wonder she has changed drastically.

Why life is so uncertain, and why our life is so fragile ? To my friend, the best medicine to heal her wound is non other than time. I sincerely hope that as time goes on, she will be able to take it and revive to be a stronger person...Friend, you must take care !!