450,000.00 kept in the house ?

News from Sin Chew Jit Poh today that someone was robbed of cash of Rm450k from his house. Just cant imagine why such a big amount of cash was kept in the house and was there for quite a long time ?

I felt sorry for the owner but at the same time his ignorance and carelessness also to be blamed to cause such an incident to happen.

I have a friend who is in the trading business but he never keep his collection in the bank but only at home. His transaction are all in cash only. He told me it is very ma fan to issue cheques and he sort of cant trust the bankers. Can you imagine the risks he is taking ?

Mother's behavior

I used to miss and love my mother those days but donno why of late the feelings of love towards her faded....

I also observed and asked around friends around me, not all old folks at her age behave like that.

The worst is her unreasonably continuous scolding ppl around her, esp her maid and my sister who has been taking care of her all these while! She used 3 letters words that really irritated us. She can be so weak out there but as soon she reached home she behave differently. She can bang the door and start find faults in ppl and start her nagging and scolding again. This really stress her siblings so much.

Perhaps she was brought up in the old traditioal way, her thinking was also very traditional. She thinks that a mother is always right and she hardly admits her mistake.

It is even more difficult for us to correct her mistake at her age now. So we just got to bare with her lor.

women are really " Gia Su " no matter at what age

My job not only beautify my clients face but most of the time i have to spare my ears to listen to their problems or happenings.

Most of my clients are women and they aged from teenage to old age. Through their conversation i discovered that generally women like to compare and compete among themselves be it their looks, wealth, cars their boyfriend or husband drives, house they live, whose child are more intelligent and so on... the worst part was if they felt that they are not comparetable they would start to talk bad about you , terror right ?

As a conclusion , different age compare with different issues lor, aigh !

Holidays over

To me Dec month seem to have ended very fast! I loved the feeling of getting together with my family members all the time.

Ever since my eldest son left for Spore for his uni study Ireally missed him so much and l always looked forward to see him back home esp in Dec when he got his 1 month break.

Compare to his 1st year break, he really made his effort to spend more time with the family which I really appreciated so much.

We enjoyed a full day shopping in Pavilion, walking hand in hand at the Curve to enjoy the Xmas scene and not to forget our Penang trip to enjoy most of the hawkers' food. Guess what ? We all put on weight, noticed our faces swelled and our bodies widened but the fact was, we all enjoyed so much. My son's weight increased by 6kg. I think he has to start his slimming program lo!!

I always wanted to have a loving family in harmony and i believe this dream can only be achieve provided every family members does his part.

现在的年轻人

样貌真得那么重要吗？

今天无意中跟朋友聊天时，才知道现在的年轻人竟然为了追求外表而不惜花钱去整容？而且还是一个学生！！

现代人的价值观已经变了，是好事还是坏事？

Quarrel between the brothers

I always feel very proud of my children. They appear to be very thoughtful, study also not too bad and most of all they behave well esp they will try their best not to hurt the parents!!

However i was so disappointed and stress over my 2 boys action today, they just quarrel over a very small matter. They spitted to each other and used words that really hurts. I was shocked and for a few minutes I really did not know what to do . Suddenly i realised that the two boys have grown up and they wanted pride more than anything. They just cant afford to loose their "face" !

Tell me how and what am I suppose to do to bring the two boys together ?

A special Xmas day to remember ..

I was drunk on the xmas eve and was damn happy cos i have arranged a small gathering with my sisters and my childhood friend. we talked and laughed and i drank red wines and whisky and white wine and eventually floored.. haha !!



I was sleeping like a baby and suddenly was awaken by an early hp call . I was cursing in my heart that who the hell who called so early esp in a holiday morning ?? Guess what ? Someone called and told us that our good friend just passed away early morning.



I just couldnt accept it ! I was shocking and all my sleepyness just gone and replaced by fear and regrets ! How could this happen ? His house was half way renovating and he cant even got a chance to move in to enjoy his new home ! It was so radiculours and unbelivable !



I can still recall his humourness, his voice, the way he used to disturb my children.. so near yet so far !



Life is just full of unexpectancies and at times we just cant really plan so far. We just got to appreciate what we have and care more for the loves while they are still around.